Can somebody help me? regarding buying older horse

[iheartasb]

Originally Posted by D_BaldStockings

I think this is the best advice, yet.

Children learn so much from the entire lesson /barn atmosphere; and it is often easier to be taught by a non-parent!

I agree.I want one that would be ok for lead line lessons for my son.

[3kidsandahorse]

Originally Posted by iheartasb

I found another excellent academy mare which was great,slow when she needed to,faster when I asked her to trot. but the owner is asking WAY beyond my budget .

Believe me I understand keeping within a budget. I've done that all my life.

However you have to consider how rare this mare is. Very few horses will do what this one will do--slow down or step up when needed. Many people consider them priceless! Believe me, I had one like her and now realize exactly what I gave up.

I wish you good luck in your search. You will find the right one. FWIW I believe an older horse will give you what you need, most likely.

[rowantree]

Originally Posted by iheartasb

I am looking for a good gentle horse for myself and my 4 yr old son .Today we saw an older asb who is 19 years old.He looked healthy with a very slight low back, kind,and responded very well to me and my son.The only thing that I am concerned about is he looked quite a bit lazy.He barely wanted to trot ,and that was only after I pushed him a lot.However he was a very non spooky gentle guy.

My question is

Would you consider such a horse being in my situation? (Intermediate Beginner adult,developmentally delayed son?).

If so can someone tell me the precautions (labs ,vet check etc )"I should take if I decide to get him?

Thank you for any help I can get.

Wow - do you really want a horse to go fast with your 4 year old? I have a 4 year old daughter that has been riding since before she could walk. Any 4 year old, no matter how much schooling he has will make inadvertent kicks, yanks, etc. I'd want a horse that does not 'spook' or 'goose'. Now, you may wish a horse that is a bit more responsive and energetic. It is hard to find a horse that fits both needs and satisfies everyone. But, in my opinion, you must get a horse that will suit your son - how much is his life worth to you? A horse can kill you without even trying. I have 20+ years in instruction with a variety of breeds. One of the best horses I ever owned for lessons and small children was bought at 16. If your son is developmentally delayed, would you not want EVEN MORE a horse that is trustworthy? In any 4 year old, trotting is tough to learn. This horse is a gem if you like him, personality is everything. Yes, there are concerns for older horses, if you know of or are recommended to a competent vet, he/she should be able to tell you of any concerns - arthritis, founder, Cushings, dental problems, etc. Please consider my recommendations, I urge you.

[rowantree]

Originally Posted by iheartasb

The horse did not work out.The next day he was even more lazy than the day before the owners kept dragging him also kept his ears pinned back.I don't think he was feeling well...

I found another excellent academy mare which was great,slow when she needed to,faster when I asked her to trot. but the owner is asking WAY beyond my budget .

Guess gotta keep looking......

Once again - WOW - glad you found out, NO one needs an ill-tempered horse, especially a child - no matter the situation - whose life you are hoping to improve. Keep looking, you WILL find the right one and it will be even better than this mare - from many years experience, I promise you.

[iheartasb]

Originally Posted by rowantree

Once again - WOW - glad you found out, NO one needs an ill-tempered horse, especially a child - no matter the situation - whose life you are hoping to improve. Keep looking, you WILL find the right one and it will be even better than this mare - from many years experience, I promise you.

We did get a very nice horse from the saddlebred rescue.however he will remain under training and I will put my son on him only when I am very very sure he is gentle enough.Thank you for the recommendations !